Most men now days play both roles! This way everything works in their favor and women wonder why they are getting so stressed and overwhelmed now days. I remember back in the day women were housewives and at home with the kids and the men would go out and work. They would complain about how hard of a day they have had and how tired they were. This would fly back in the day because in those days men actually worked and worked hard without technology. Now days it's not even close to compare. Yes, we fought for equality. But are things really that equal still? Men still get paid more than us for doing the same job as they do and on top of that we are still working when we get home. They use the same line "baby I worked all day...I am so tried,"as they are kicking their feet up on the couch and grabbing for the remote. Which is the same thing they said years ago. Do they say that when they want love at night? Most likely not!
My point is I know a lot of women that are disrespected and not cherished for their efforts and they do more then the men now days. Do they think we don't get tired? They wonder why half the time we don't want to be intimate. How is it that we get up at the same time as them in the morning, get the kids ready for school, go to work, come home, make dinner, get the kids washed up and ready for bed. Then we pick up the toys and do the dishes that were left in the sink after dinner. Be the sexy wife at night. And all they have to do is wake up in the morning, possibly take the kids to school, go to work, and come home and lay in front of the television complaining about their day.
When it comes to a relationship things are really uneven now days. A man needs to decide if he wants a traditional relationship where he works and supports his family day in and day out and then woman can be there for the family and for their kids especially. Then he can complain all he wants and relax, kick his feet up and watch t.v. all night if he wants to. Or if he wants a more modern relationship where both parties work, they both clean and tidy the house, and they both take care of the kids and cook. Not to mention they both should get a night out.
Men always want to feel wanted or useful. But when you ask them for anything it's like the whole world fell apart. They always want to have the last say like a traditional man with their pride but do they act like a traditional man? Do they still open car doors for us women or any door for that matter? Do they throw their jacket over a puddle so our feet don't get wet? And how many guys offer their coats to you now days when you are cold and show how much they truly care? I think it's the mans job to show how much he really wants apart of your life and that is how it has always been but us women are leaving ourselves to lose out in every aspect. How did this happen?
Which man would you prefer? Traditional working man or a modern help you with everything and you both work kind of man? (if you had a choice) How could you make a relationship with the one you love where it's a relationship where you both matter and not just what matters to one of you in the relationship? Is this going to affect our relationships in the future more? If a woman can't feel the support she needs from her man then what difference is it that she does everything by herself or with a lump on the couch?
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